Support Calls
Segment 10: Hope of VisionAnswering questions- more next weekI see the progress you are making and it is truly inspiring to meI hope you realize how powerful what your doing isThe hope of my visionConquering yourself is huge[swf file=”https://s3.amazon …
Segment 9: Messy 3-Year-Old3-year-old expectations and limitsOCD tendenciesSetting up your environment to create orderHave set clean-up times and not worry about it the rest of the timeTeach him what an accomplishment looks likeWhat chores to give a ch …
Segment 8: Getting Children to Eat Foods They Don’t Want ToIt takes someone 16 times of trying something before they actually decide you like itI will allow you pick one food they hate, but everything else you must eatAsking permission for food[swf fil …
Segment 7: Disagreeing Appropriately With My SpouseWhy people are passive-aggressiveHow to talk in a Couple’s Meeting to help himWhat to say and do when he’s like thatOnly Disagree Appropriately in front of the children if you are both calm[swf file=”h …
Segment 6: How to Help My Friend With Her BoyHaving a connection while correcting: go to him1- Establish a connection and look right in his eyes, 2- Gets on his level, take him away from the situation, 3- then this is what happened, this is whats going …
Segment 5: Philosophy of Balancing Things VS People and Study VS ConnectingPeople are the most valuableRelationships drive the universe: those relationships are the reasonswhywe are hereWhen I study I am better prepared to connect to others“If we’re pa …
Segment 4: All Five Steps of “Following Instructions”Give a correction or in the beginning do a quick ‘redo’Practice (roll play) again and again until they can do all 5 steps[swf file=”https://s3.amazonaws.com/CC_segments/CC4-26-13Segment4-AllFiveSteps …
Segment 3: Home from DetentionComments about Detention being better than homeWhat to do about tongue piecing and name calling to siblingsMake sure eye contact is going onName calling is a no answerWhy not to bring religion into out of control behavior
Segment 2: Role Playing and SODASRole playing list(still getting this from Nicholeen and will post on the page later)Disagree appropriately situation ideasTips on how to write SODAS situations without giving “leading” situationsAttach an emotion: “Mom …
Segment 1: Welcome and Announcements Segment 2: Role Playing and SODAS Segment 3: Home from Detention Segment 4: All Five Steps of “Following Instructions” Segment 5: Philosophy of Balancing Things VS People and Study VS Connecting Segment 6: How to Help My Friend With Her Boy Segment 7: Disagreeing Appropriately With My Spouse Segment 8: Getting Children to Eat Foods They Don’t Want To Segment 9: Messy 3-Year-Old Segment 10: Hope of Vision
Segment 6: Micromanaging Jelly Beans & Reluctant 7-Year-OldSiblings keeping track of extra chores earned by othersMicromanaging other people is a boundary issueBoundaries are No Answers.Pre-teach about boundaries, then correct every time he crosses …
Segment 5: Success Story of Implementing TSG Without Hubby On BoardMy story (from the book) when I asked Spencer: What do you want?It can take longer without Hubby on boardProof is in the pudding- when your relationships are strong with your kids, he w …
Segment 4: Drama Queens Getting HurtBeing raised in the feminist era of tough was coolStrong is not indifference; strongischoosing to be okayDescribe with love to show that you understand. Empathize.Give an instruction. Praise when conquerDo I give ext …
Segment 3: “Love and Logic” VS Teaching Self-GovernmentHow can I tell people about TSG without offending them?Recognize the good part then observe the differencesGood part “Love and Logic” has had in the parenting conversationDifferences I have noticed …
Segment 2: Daughter In Detention13 year-old daughter not accepting consequences led to calling the policePower struggling and manipulationSuggestions of what to do in court and how to talk to the JudgeMake sure he spells out clearly future consequencesYou could try video taping yourself to see what is happening and analyze it
Segment 1: Welcome and Announcements Segment 2: Daughter In Detention Segment 3: “Love and Logic” VS Teaching Self-Government Segment 4: Drama Queens Getting Hurt Segment 5: Success Story of Implementing TSG Without Hubby On Board Segment 6: Micromanaging Jelly Beans & Reluctant 7-Year-Old Segment 7: Finding Sources
Segment 1: Welcome and Announcements Segment 2: Not Wanting to Listen to Disagree Appropriately Segment 3: How The System Works For Young Kids Segment 4 A: How The System Works For Older Kids – Emotional Manipulation Segment 4 B: How The System Works For Older Kids – 17-Year-Old Offended Segment 4 C: How The System Works For Older Kids – Out Of Instructional Control Segment 4 D: Older Kids – Running Away & Appropriate Consequences
Segment 1: Setting Boundaries With New Friends & Social Training Segment 2: The Inspiration Pathway to Learning Piano Segment 3: Sexual Addictions and A.D.D. Segment 4: Rule of 3 Segment 5: Small Success Story – Child Going to Class at Church Segment 6: Five-Year-Old With a Gas Can Segment 7: Definition Of Love Segment 8: Homeschool Helps Segment 9: Calm Down Spots For Toddlers Segment 10: The Burden of Emotional Weight Segment 11: Clingy Four-Year-Old With Social Fears
Happy Birthday Nicholeen & Questions to Implementation Course Members How to Talk to Kids About Sex 7-Year-Old Out of Instructional Control Avoiding the Urge to CONTROL Disagreeing Appropriately Every Single Time
We had an amazing call today and Nicholeen was on fire! Did you feel it? Announcements Gluten-Free Eating Four-Year-Old Screaming “I’m calm!” Five Social Lessons Class – Girl’s Camp Irreverence & Silliness Helping the Strong-Willed Child Appropriate Boundaries & Disagreeing Appropriately With Your Spouse No more TV at Our House Boundaries for Climbing Babies Unconditional Love Appropriate Ages to Talk to My Children About Sex and Pornography