Support Calls
On this call we had a guest speaker, Aneladee Milne. In the call Aneladee gets real with Nicholeen about How to fight the plague of addiction What to do if you even suspect your child is addicted What could happen if you don’t talk about it Story from Nicholeen of when she didn’t listen to that feeling The Creepy Guy Detector- learning how to read addictions in others Statistics: As of 2012 60% of 8 year old boys have been exposed to porn. Of those, 60% of those exposed become addicted. By age 11, 94% of boys have been exposed. The Myth that children don’t get addicted to porn and if they do get exposed they can easily overcome it. Signs of how to know when someone is addicted Acknowledging feelings & coming to terms that it happened Story from Nicholeen of what she did the first time she found out
Here is what we discussed in this call. Invitation to participate in a TSG Survey- Help us give you what you want Story on Family Tutorial DVD- Why is the footage so rough? How do I slow down? How do we recover after lots of Play Time with other families? Summer homeschool Recommended music for home refinement Stuck on Step 2, Couple’s Meetings What to do if my 13-yr-old daughter decides to leave, or if she is ever gone when I go to check on her at night What to do when younger children (ages 3 & 5) won’t stay in time-out How to introduce TSG to my 15-yr-old son
* On this call we had some technical difficulties with the computer, so there is a clip that may sound out of order because it was pasted in the place where it was on topic, which was different the live call- just so you know. Thanks for your patience and understanding. Nicholeen introduces Pennie Rumsey & Invites us to email Glenn Beck Awesome Success story of 20 month old boy doing Self-Government! If he can, anyone can! Play Time Rules Parents getting Consequences How to teach Disagreeing Appropriately for ages 3, 5, 8, 12? & How do I teach tolerance and not taking offense or getting annoyed for things that are harmless? Motivation to Change, Lying & Candy Food Addictions & Dishonesty Rule of 3- Where do I go from here? Controlling Siblings Raccoon Circle – Family Unity Mommy Blues –Needing Space Links & Announcements
Questions from Today’s call, Nicholeen talked about: Mutual Respect Begging and Negative Attention Seeking SOCIAL ADDICTIONS-Breaking Computer Rules SOCIAL ADDICTIONS-Cell phones at church TSG for a 2 yr old Anxiety Delaying Consequences
Question 1: Babysitting What do I do with TSG when babysitting other peoples kids? How can I talk to others about TSG? Magic Pill solutions v.s. Work and Effort Tough their hearts- it begins with empathy and not judging them Pre-Teach WATCH FOR A FUTURE TRAINING on How to Teach TSG to Others
Using TSG while babysiting other people’s children Having respect for parent authority. How to handle several different scenarios, such as threatening, whining, controlling others, micromanagement, etc. What todo when your babysitters don’t know the TSG language. Using treats for rewards
On this call we discussed How do I repair a relationship that I was abusive in the past? Repairing past abusive relationships, Repentance & Forgiveness, “Transformation in ourselves inspires transformation in others.” Eye Contact, roll playing, Disagreeing appropriately, child led Family Meetings, Mentor sessions When do I use the Rule of Three and When do I use ‘time out”? -Fairness problems, Entitlement Issues – Pre-teaching
In this call we discuss: What to do if your child sets up a Facebook account behind your back and then tries to harm you What to do if your toddler draws all over the house and the proper consequence Teaching Children to sit still How to handle a spouse who micro manages Finding good books online
On this call, we cover: Movie review websites What to do if your child seems tired all of the time Should children be “babysat” by TV while mom cleans and does other house hold chores? Curing entertainment addictions PLUS, a mini class by Nicholeen
On this call I answered questions about: Sexual Experimentation In Young Children The Way Nicholeen Chooses Movies She Will Watch Helping Others Become Less Selfish Teaching Young Children About Dating, Courtship, Kissing and Marriage Consequences for Siblings Fighting Children Manipulating at Bedtime Staying Consistent of Vacation Child With a Negative Attitude About Learning
On this call I answered questions about: Children who don’t like consequences Children who wake up at night Prayer as the cornerstone of Self-Government Decreasing Morning Stress Partially Following Instructions
Bonus Class: Training of the Heart / Four Environmental Traps & EssentialsCall 1-4-13 Movies-Masturbation-Selfishness-Dating-Fighting-Bedtime-Vacations-LovingLearning Call 1-11-13 Tired Kids-TV Babysitting-Entertainment Addictions-Mini Class
This is a very simple list of what is covered on the recorded conference callson this page. Since Teaching Self-Government is a complete picture, more details are often discussed for each topic than may appear on this list. But, it is a great place for …
Retracting a consequence earned & Focusing on the principles behind the skills Distractions for 16 year olds & Social Time for Teens Using a planner and TSG Dangers of Snacks as rewards Will they hate chores forever? Calming yourself Keeping the House In Order When it is against your nature – some tips Saying No to Creative Parenting
What to do when family members are not on board with the family vision What to do when young children experiment sexually What to do when a child seeks negative attention or “tests your consistency” Coddling VS Compassion Teenager Studying and LyingHabits
This call covers: Correcting behavior while traveling and what to do when you have different standards from the people you are visiting.Falling off the TSG wagon and getting back up.What to do when you spouse isn’t on board. 14 year old manipulative son and Disagreeing Appropriately Loss of privileges on a Sunday. Daughter plans her loss of privileges to happen when she can’t lose them. Discouragement When and how to teach the family the TSG program Children’s friends who keep bringing electronic devices to the house. What to do about it. Role Play Ideas for making it more fun, staying away from bribing and the upcoming video Pulling yourself out of a slump
The four levels of learning self-government (new content) And I answered a question about a step-father who is not relating well with his step-son
This call covers: Responding to violent behaviors Whining from age 5 daughter Facebook no answers for young children Motivational Systems for non-focused children
On this call I answered questions about: Children who don’t want to shower A four year old child who disrupts church classes Using time out more effectively with toddlers And, Understanding SODAS better
On this call I answered questions about: Dishonesty Attitude Problems Toddler Bed and Nap Times Siblings Fighting Personality Types